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Kehilat Middlesbrough Newsletter
No 5 January 2000 page 2
Letters
On 28 June 1939 I arrived
towards evening at Liverpool Street Station together with my
parents. I was immediately separated from them to spend a few weeks
in a convent before being sent on to M’bro , to stay with the
Freemans. Their daughter, Beryl (Babs), took me under her wing and
into her heart. I was desperately lost and confused. We had survived
Vienna and Nazi Austrian persecution and all the horrible scenes
which were enacted against the Jews were very vivid in my mind.
I started school in
Ayresome Street but, being unable to speak English, was bullied and
beaten. I instinctively knew that my survival depended upon my
learning English very quickly. Within six weeks I had learned to
speak English. Thankfully the beatings then stopped and I was
accepted.
To this day I remember the
warmth and kindness of Wolfy and Hindy, Babs’ parents. They
treated me with equality. On the rare occasions my parents came to
visit, I would go afterwards to find their footprints where they had
walked.
The terrible trauma of
separation from my parents and being alone so often, has never quite
left me. To this day, I guard my children, old and young, with that
special attention practised only by a Holocaust survivor. Babs
Freeman took the place of my mother. She nursed me when I was sick
and spent much time being part of my sad life.
I found only warmth and
caring from the M’bro Kehila, especially Rabbi Miller and his
wonderful children. Rabbi Miller taught me the Aleph Bet with great
patience. Jewish education was non-existent in Vienna at that time,
as the Nazis had closed all Jewish institutions.
In retrospect, it was Rabbi
Miller’s tuition that kept my Jewish identity intact during those
evacuation years after I left M’bro, when I was sent to non-Jewish
schools and church services on Sundays.
Although I view that period
of my life as horrendous, there is no doubt that the M’bro Kehila
was instrumental in holding me to my people. The dedication of Babs
Freeman and her parents will remain with me always. I have a fine
wife and five wonderful children, all following the ways of Torah
and mitzvot.
A little four year old lost
refugee, who was given such love and kindness at a critical stage of
his life, is now by the grace of God a 65 year old man, now feeling
safe.
Meir
(Martin) Fleischer
London,
England
I am Ruth
Sherwin, nee Israel. I am sorry that I haven’t written before, but
all your wonderful letters have spurred me into action.
I was born in
1942, the youngest daughter of Dr Joseph Israel and Dorothy (nee
Lazarus). My father was in general practice in Southfield Road. I
had two sisters, Eleanore and Judith. My uncle David Israel, aged 92
and married to Charlotte, still lives in Nunthorpe.
We lived at 24
Eastbourne Road, Linthorpe. On one side lived Geoffrey and Rita
Benjamin and on the other, someone who was my best friend—both at
school and later—Rochelle Selwyn (Schmulewitsch). We still see
each other regularly. She is now Mrs Specter and lives in Northwood,
London. When we were 15 years old Rochelle and I would travel to
Newcastle on the small two carriage diesel train to join in with the
Jewish Students Society, coming home on the last train arriving
after midnight. The train was full of soldiers returning from leave
and Rochelle and I had a great time as they "chatted us
up". So different from school the next morning!
Some of my
contemporaries were (apart from Rochelle) Pamela Cohen, Gwen Lamb,
Ruth Saville, Helen Simons, Estelle Levy, Wendy Fleischmann, Melvyn
Kersh, Alan Cohen, Donald Wiseman, Bernard Vyner, Michael and David
Saville, and the Bharier family.
I have fond
memories of walking with friends to shul in Park Road South and
queuing up after the service to shake hands with Rev Kersh, a
kindly, lively man with a real sense of humour. On Yom Kippur we
would creep out of shul and wander round the park opposite to gossip
about the boys who sat downstairs, taking our minds off our pangs of
righteous hunger.
My home was
always full of classical music. Dad played the violin and had a
beautiful singing voice. My mother played piano and took lessons in
composition, eventually writing a biblical opera.
We girls all
had regular piano and singing lessons; as a little girl I was often
entered for Festival Competitions and was usually expected to win! I
would travel on my own on the little diesel train to Newcastle,
feeling very grown up, to have my regular piano lesson with Dr
Reginald Cooper, the organist at Hexham Abbey.
During the war
my two sisters were evacuated to the village of Swainby out in the
country. My parents had a love of the countryside around M’bro and
I recall many excursions and incidents, including having to push our
little Austin 7, driven by my mum, up the exceedingly steep
Sheepscar Hill above Swainby.
When I was 17
I won a place at The Royal Academy of Music in London to study piano
and singing and following my degree I went off to teach at the
British Embassy School in Teheran in "Persia" - still
during the time of the Shah. On my return I went to teach in
Docklands, which was a pretty tough experience.
I eventually
came to Leeds to study piano with Fanny Waterman, met Jeffrey, a GP
and married in 1968. We have two sons Jonathan and Adam.
In retrospect
we must have been considered a slightly unconventional family,
although we certainly enjoyed playing a part in the community.
Ruth
Sherwin
Leeds,
England
Many thanks for all the
Newsletters, which I have read with interest. I commend your
initiative, energy and enthusiasm.
I came to M’bro in 1962
with my husband Morris Gordon. He had been appointed principal
lecturer in chemistry at Constantine College. Our years in M’bro
are particularly memorable, as my children Helen and Daniel were
born there. The community was very friendly and supportive. Many of
your readers will recall Morris’s beautiful chazanut. One of the
greatest pleasures was the friendship of the other young families.
It is good to hear of them through your Newsletter. We left M’bro
in 1968 to teach at Carmel College. We subsequently spent some time
in Australia, before returning to London where, after only a year
and a half, he died suddenly.
We always liked to think
that, of all our travels, our years at Birchgate Road (off Harrow
Road) were the happiest.
Joyce
Gordon
London,
England
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