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Middlesbrough
Memories by Jonathan Isserlin
Thank you very much for
including me in the Newsletter and I heartily support your
efforts. I hope it does, indeed, succeed in continuing the community
of past and present Boro residents.
I was unfortunately unable
to get to the closing ceremonies of the shul in November 1998. I was
only made aware of them about 2-3 weeks beforehand, and by then I
had already made plans to be in Middlesbrough to visit my Dad
at Chanukah. I had also made extensive other plans for that trip so
I could not make the changes that would have been required. Despite
that, and especially when I heard that there had been so many people
at the reunion/closing down ceremony, I was disappointed in
retrospect that I had not made that extra effort.
I must say that I have had
extensive reports of the event, firstly from Michael Bharier with
whom I am in fairly frequent contact and who sent me photograhs
taken at the event, and also through the Evening Gazette on-line
which had a rather in-accurate report of the event together with a
photograph of Rev Topp sitting in, of all places, the Ezrach Nashim!
It certainly gave me a view of the shul that I had never previously
had, if nothing else.
As my Dad is still living
in, or rather out of, Middlesbrough, I visit about twice a year. He
recently moved out of the house he has lived in for the past 45
years on The Avenue, and into a bungalow on the outskirts. The move
was necessary because of his deteriorating health and his inability
to climb stairs with any sort of ease, but it was still hard to
think of him no longer living in the old house. As a life long Boro
supporter it is sad to think that I can no longer walk from his
house to Ayresome Park to watch "the lads" play. Now I can
no longer walk anywhere from his house because I could even walk to
the new Riverside Stadium from The Avenue, albeit with a bit more
effort than before. I well remember coming to shul for Minchah on
Shabbat afternoons to be greeted by Rev Kersh with a diplomatic
enquiry as to whether I had heard the result of the Boro game that
afternoon, when he knew full well that I had been there in person!
He was always interested in how Cloughie and Peacock had done, I
even remember him being a fan of Lindy Delaphena and Rolando Ugolini
in somewhat earlier days.
I have fine memories of
Middlesbrough other than the football team. I was not born there,
and in fact I first moved there when I was 10 after my father was
appointed as a Consultant Orthopoedic Surgeon in 1954. 1 did,
though, have my Bar Mitzvah there, a fact that I recalled recently
when I did the layaning, or part of it, of my Barmitzvah parsha, Bo,
in my local shul here in Canada. I also spent all my vacations from
Carmel there as well as many weekends and holidays when I was
already at medical school in London. My dad used to sit next to
Louis Bharier in shul on the north side, three rows back, and when I
met Michael for the first time in about 4 decades a few months ago,
I was struck by a feeling of incredible deja vu because he looks the
spitting image of his father!
I remember that Rev Kersh
could never get my name right (I am Yonah not Yonatan) even on the
day of my Bar Mitzvah. But I also remember that he could layen as
well as anyone else I have even heard, and usually with minimal or
no preparation.
Most of all I remember
Morris Saville as he used to be when he was Chazan Sheni on the
Yomim Nora'im ... Chazan Rishon, more like it, in the passion he put
into his davening. Particularly I remember him each year as I now am
doing the same sort of thing in my shul as Chazan Sheni and Ba'al
Tokeah. Each year I try to emulate him doing Shaharit on Rosh
Hashanah and Yom Kippur, especially as I try to get my voice to
break in the same sort of way while doing the Avinu Malkenu's! I
also feel for him, as I have no doubt he felt, when he struggled to
keep the note going with the Shofar and his lip threatened to come
unglued from the instrument and he, as I now, silently pray that it
will stay attached for just a few more notes and not leave me
blowing silently! I also remember him and Rose Saville in the shop
on St. Barnabas St. hovering and fussing over us to make sure that
we had all that we needed for a kosher house. I feel that the
community started to fall apart when they left for Sunderland, (what
a terrible thing for a Boro supporter to have to bear!), and my many
trips back only served to emphasise that point with the minyanim
diminishing each time until there were essentially none except by
special order and calling!
I now have three children
of my own, the oldest of whom has inherited my love for Boro
football despite being located in Toronto. I will continue to go to
Middlesbrough as long as my father stays there and alive, but, I'm
sad to say, when he eventually passes on, (ad meah ve-esrim,) there
will be little to draw me back there other than the football team!
Jonathan
Isserlin
Nepean,
Ontario, Canada
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